The Downside of Advice-giving: Motivational Interviewing Part I
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“If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day.
If you teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime.” – unknown
When our loved ones experience problems, it’s only natural that we want to help resolve their troubles. Empathic sensitive people are smart and we’ve learned a lot. We want to help. One of our natural tendencies is to give people advice and tell them what to do. Therapists, parents, friends, supervisors, and teachers fall prey to this tendency. Read more